In
the book Writing on the Wall I found the first chapter very interesting.
Learning about the research about monkeys and how they form social groups was
almost mind blowing to me. I had heard of the “monkey sphere” before. I had no
idea that within larger groups, that monkeys form even smaller grooming
cohabitations and how complicated that they can be. Who the monkeys choose to
groom and what smaller groups they choose to be in is extremely calculated.
Everything they do is in relation to their social status to the rest of the
group. I had no idea that monkey society was that complex. Baby monkeys will
even trick the whole group into thinking that there is danger to get out of
trouble with their mothers. It goes on to explain that humans behave in much the
same way. Apparently, the larger the brain size, the more capable of handling
social situations we are. That means we can have more people in our “monkey
sphere”. If I am remembering correctly, that means about 150 people for humans.
With social network I am going to assume that we all have more than 150
“friends”, but that’s the number it is thought that we can actually connect
with. We even have smaller groups within our larger one. Look at any group of
friends and you will see what I am talking about. For our grooming
cohabitations, we no longer use grooming we use gossip. This is something else
I found incredibly interesting. Gossip is a fundamental part of how we relate
to each other as people and how we build relationships. Gossip is always looked
at as a bad thing, but it is legitimately how we grow as a species. It is how
we build trust with each other and warn others about people that could possibly
hurt them or cause them pain. All of this makes a lot of sense to me. I was
just so shocked at the similarities you can draw between the social groups
between monkeys and people.
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